What is the WORST example of dialectical tensions?

Wanting to travel with your partner, and also wanting to stay at home

What are the three possible responses to a transgression?

Acceptance, Rejection, Discussion

Which of these is the WORST example of a relational transgression?

A partner expressing interesting facts to another

Which of these is an example of metacommunication

Talking to a friend about the way you deal with conflict

These dialects cause:

relationships to be in a constant state of flux, known as tension

Which of these is NOT a common example of a dialectical tension caused by dialects?

the desire for passion, along with commitment

What is the BEST example of a proper attempt to repair a transgression?

Express Regret-Take Responsibility-Make Restitution-Repent-Ask Forgiveness

What are Relational Dialects?

Important but inherently incompatible goals that exist in all relationships

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Relational Dialects, Tensions, & Transgressions

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1
What is the WORST example of dialectical tensions?
Wanting to travel with your partner, and also wanting to stay at home
Wanting to be entirely open with your partner, but keep an some privacy
Wanting to feel guaranteed around your partner and wanting surprise
wanting to have your partner depend on you, and not need you all the time
2
What is the first step in repairing a transgression?
Requesting Forgiveness
Promising to Change
Make Restitution
Expression of Regret
3
What are the three possible responses to a transgression?
Acceptance, Rejection, Discussion
Learn, Stay the Same, Cry
Leave, Stay, Take Time
Learn, Live, Leave
4
Which of these is the WORST example of a relational transgression?
A partner expressing interesting facts to another
One partner cheating on another
One partner physically assaulting another
One partner being too closed off from the other
5
Which of these is an example of metacommunication
Talking to a romantic partner about the presidential debate
Talking to a friend about the way you deal with conflict
Arguing with an acquanitance about who the best celebrity is
Talking to a stranger about how you like to bake chocolate chip cookies
6
These dialects cause:
inevitable termination of relationships
the honeymoon stage of a relationship to end
abuse cycles within relationships
relationships to be in a constant state of flux, known as tension
7
Which of these is NOT a common example of a dialectical tension caused by dialects?
the desire for passion, along with commitment
the desire for independence and dependence
the desire for predictability as well as spontaneity
the desire for openness and privacy
8
Relational Transgressions are when either an explicit or implicit term is violated
True
False
9
What is the BEST example of a proper attempt to repair a transgression?
"I am deeply sorry for nothing"
Say that you are sorry and that you won't do it again
Express Regret-Take Responsibility-Make Restitution-Repent-Ask Forgiveness
Say Sorry-Say You've Changed- Ask Forgiveness
10
What are Relational Dialects?
Vengeful, Spiteful moments of Hatred within a Relationship
Important but inherently incompatible goals that exist in all relationships
The way we talk to a partner (romantic or otherwise)
Our conflict styles with our partner (romantic or otherwise)
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The closer we are, the more ______ arrises to pull us apart
life
conflict
hate
love
12
Relational Transgressions usually have one partner letting the other partner down
False
True

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