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1
as you work your neck should be
leaning away from the dominant hand
elongated and balanced over the shoulders
bent over the client
leaning toward the dominant hand
2
3rd step of the 10 step consultation method
analyze the clients hair
perform a needs assessment
review the clients lifestyle
determine and rate the clients preferences
3
good communication skills reduce potential workplace
harmony
conflict
consistency
compatibility
4
which blocks the creative mind from exploring ideas and discovering solutions to challenges
familial support
criticism
enthusiasm
motivation
5
any organism of microscopic to submicroscopic size is a ___
microorganism
staphylococci
streptococci
mycobacterium
6
some ___ disinfectants are harmful to salon tools and implements
tuberculocidal
nonporous
hospital
antifungal
7
beauty icon who turned hairstyling world on its ear with revolutionary geometi cuts
queen nefertiti
vidal sassoon
charles nessler
max factor
8
transmission of blood or body fluids through touching, kissing, coughing, sneezing,etc., is ___
direct transmission
infection transmission
indirect transmission
sterile transmission
9
photoepilation ___
can clear 50-60% of hair in 12 weeks
poses a significant risk of infection
requires the use of needles
has significant side effects
10
which of these should be kept in your personal hygiene pack
gum
teeth whitener
toothbrush
lipstick
11
ability to deal with difficult situations comes from having
strong family unit
well-developed life skills
specific career goals
fine-tuned smile
12
to help protect clothing from dirt and stains, consider wearing this to work
apron or a smock
pair of coveralls
pair of scrubs
scotch-guarded clothing
13
accelerated hydrogen peroxide (AHP) is a recently approved disinfectant that must be changed
every 14 days
every 5 days
every 7 days
every 30 days
14
while you work, a good guideline to follow is to
keep your back and neck relaxed
avoid regular stretching exercises
endure long periods of uninterrupted repetitive motions
use ergonomically designed implements
15
antimicrobial and antibacterial soaps are ___ regular soaps or detergents
just as effective as
slightly more effective than
no more effective than
slightly less effective than
16
it's important that your clothing be free of dirt and is
stain free
colorful
new
expensive
17
items that are ___ are also considered absorbent
porous
parasitic
pathogenic
phenolic
18
if a client is revealing increasingly private details, ... or try to excuse yourself
reveal a personal detail
turn on a loud machine
Change the subject
discontinue service
19
when communicating with salon manager about an issue, you should... beforehand
think of people you can blame
think of possible excuses
cover up your mistakes
think of possible solutions
20
recommended time between waxings
2-4 weeks
4-6 weeks
one week
6-8 weeks
21
to not maintaining a prof. image in a salon includes loss of clients, poor reputation, &
bad attitude
loss of self-esteem
loss of income
having fewer friends
22
submicroscopic particle that infects/resides in cells of biological organisms
virus
parasite
bacterium
cocci
23
ancient greeks made lavish use of perfumes and cosmetics for grooming, medicinal purposes, and
family events
burial rites
religious rites
social rites
24
laser hair removal is most effective when used on follicles that are in the ___ phase
catagen
resting
telogen
anagen
25
short-term goals can generally be completed within one ___ or less
week
year
month
day
26
at work, your clothing should always be stylish, comfortable, and
highly accessorized
functional
formal
colorful
27
lawrence gel, chemist in 1932, introduced first permanent color and founded the company
nexus
wella
clairol
l'oreal
28
as you interact and communicate with coworkers, you should be honest and...
frigtenn
sensitive
obvious
averse
29
method of hair removal uses electric current to growth cells of the hair
electrolysis
laser hair removal
photoepilation
sugaring
30
another name for hirsuties is ___
hyperhidrosis
hypertrophy
hypopigmentation
hypertrichosis
31
effective communication is improved through practicing verbal and nonverbal skills and ___
active listening
talking softly
speaking loudly
having a warm smile
32
Standard Precautions require employers & employees to assume all human blood & body fluids are
potentially infectious
potentially toxic
potentially harmless
potentially dangerous
33
antiseptics are intended for ___
sterilizing equipment
disinfecting equipment
disinfecting innstruments
reducing microbes on the skin
34
provides link between salons and beauty industry through new products, trends, and techniques
hair color specialist
manufacturer educator
distributor sales consultant
salon trainer
35
to counter the negative impact of repetitive motions or long periods spent in one position
stretching and walking around at intervals
practicing regular body manipulation
wearing ill-fitting shoes
being aware of the body vascular system
36
ability of the body to destroy, resist, and recognize infection is called ___
immunity
regulation
inflammation
decontamination
37
your shoes should have a low heel and
have a loose fit
have a soft sole
offer good arch support
have a tight fit
38
cocci are bacteria that are ___
round shaped
spore-shaped
corkscrew-shaped
rod-shaped
39
to be a successful salon manager, you need an aptitude for math, accounting, and understand
marketing
chemistry
anatomy
physiology
40
don’t attempt to fulfill the role of..., career guy, sounding board, or motivational coach
polite listener
hair color expert
counselor
professional acquaintance
41
electrolysis involves the administration of an electronic current with a very fine ___
rod-like electrode
needle-shaped electrode
set of round paddles
short metal strip
42
when disinfecting a whirlpool foot spa after client use, circulate the disinfectant for ___
10 minutes
5 minutes
20 minutes
60 seconds
43
never let disinfectants such as phenols come in contact with your
skin
gloves
clothing
implements
44
the scientific name of barbers itch is
folliculitis barbae
tinea spirilla
tinea capitis
tinea pedis
45
how long should your personal mission statement be
brief summary
one or two sentences
one or two paragraphs
one or two pages
46
in handling a client who’s dissatisfied with the service, the ultimate goal is to
get the client out of the salon ASAP
convince the client the you’re right and they’re wrong
make the client happy&willing to return for future services
fully satisfy the client, regardless of the cost
47
after they've been properly cleaned&disinfected, implements should be stored in a ___ container
clean and uncovered
disposable
clean and covered
permanently sealed
48
ensure you are dressed for success by tuning in to
the salon's culture
your innermost desires
the weather and the environment
your career goals
49
method of hair removal requires removal of all hair from front and back of bikini area
threading
sugaring
waxing
brazilian bikini waxing
50
if redness/swelling occurs from waxing, soothe with...and cool compress
aloe gel
moisturizing lotion
rubbing alcohol
astringent
51
add ___ when diluting to prevent foaming, which can result in an incorrect mixing ratio
disinfectant to water
tongs to water
draining basket to disinfectant
water to disinfectant
52
natural arch of the eyebrows follows the
frontal muscle
orbital bone
mandible bone
frontal bone
53
to look more intelligent during the renaissance, women
wore highly colored lip preparations
wore plain, simple clothing
dyed their hair black or dark brown
shaved their eyebrows and hairline
54
___ right before performing a service because you didn't plan ahead could be a disaster
calling a friend
texting a friend
posting on Facebook
drinking coffee
55
when washing hands, use disinfected nail brush to properly clean them. the process should take
5 minutes
10 seconds
60 seconds
45 seconds
56
after each client, properly clean foot basin&add correct amount of disinfectant&soak for ___
5 minutes
10 minutes
1 minute
10 seconds
57
disinfectants sold and used in the US must carry a(n)___ registration number
Occupation Protection Agency (OPA)
Environmental Protection Agency (EPA)
Food and Drug Administration (FDA)
US Department of Labor (DOL)
58
epilator removed hair from
bottom of follicle
middle of follicle
top of follicle
all parts of follicle
59
you should hold your elbows at no more than ___ degree angle away from your body for long
60
15
90
25
60
this, along with negative gossip, can bring an ideal atmosphere to a halt
poor listening
consideration
friendliness
impolite demeanor
61
disease affects the body as a whole, often due to under/overfunctioning internal glands/organs
occupational
systemic
infectious
contagious
62
presence of blood or other potentially infectious materials/visible debris/residues
allergy
infection
contamination
inflammation
63
tool used to remove unwanted hair at the nape of the neck
electric clipper
straight razor
shears
tweezers
64
disease caused by pathogenic organisms that enter the body&may or may not be spread btw people
infectious disease
occupationnal disease
contagious disease
systemic disease
65
if youre involved in a scheding mix up, always remember to...
be polite while arguing that you’re correct
be assertive and argue that you’re correct
be polite and never argue about who is correct
be aggressive but refrain from arguing
66
during the middle ages, women wore colored makeup on their
lips
ears
eyes
hands
67
what provides the best opportunity to advance your career and achieve real success
continuing education
basic school education
networking
professional attitude
68
putting off until tomorrow what you can do today is
scheduling
perfectionism
procrastination
time management
69
african civilization used hairstyles to convey age, marital status, _____, and rank
political position
religious beliefs
power
education
70
all are why cosmetologists should study/have a thorough understanding of life skills except
having good life skills eliminates need for self-esteem
life skills help keep interactions with clients positive
life skills help you deal with difficult situations
good life skills lead to a more satisfying/productive career
71
cutting living skin is only allowed by ___
advanced cosmetologists
qualified medical professionals
medical nail techs
advanced nail techs
72
___ has guidelines for glove, mask,& eyewear use when contact with body fluids is a possibility
Universal Provisions
Universal Preparations
Standard Preconditions
Standard Precautions
73
which form of hepatitis is the most difficult to kill on a surface
hepatitis A
hepatitis D
hepatitis B
hepatitis C
74
if a client request a specific color or cut that cannot be achieved, you should…
Create your own design and ignore what the client wants
with use the service until the client it will not work
Perform the service since this is what the client wants
create a plan, offer alternative looks, set future goals
75
to get experience providing hair services on film and TV sets, for a period of time be prepared
to immediately join a union
to work only a few hours per day
to work without tools
to offer to volunteer
76
which type of bacteria can cause strep throat or blood poisoning
bacilli
diplococci
spirilla
streptococci
77
if the label on disinfection product includes the word
concentrate
it means the product must be
heated during use
used without water
diluted before use
heated before use
78
type of disinfectant with a very high pH that can damage the skin or eyes is called ___
phenolic disinfectants
alcohol and bleach
EPA-registered disinfectants
alcohol and quats
79
different bacteria move in different ways, and self-movement is known as ___
migration
evolution
motility
locomotion
80
self-esteem is based on inner strength and begins with trusting your ability to
communicate with others
achieve set goals
handle clients effectively
become popular
81
determination of the nature of a disease from its symptoms &/or diagnostic tests
diagnosis
direct transmission
disinfection
analysis
82
modifying the workplace and its equipment/tools to make body movements comfortable and safe
economics
ergonology
ergonomics
ecology
83
it’s recommended that you allow how much time in your schedule to do the client consultation
3-5 min
5-15 min
1-3 min
15-20 min
84
mitosis is the usual process of cell reproduction when the cell divides into 2 identical cells
mother cells
son cells
daughter cells
father cells
85
lyme disease and syphillis are caused by spiral or corkscrew-shaped bacteria called ___
cocci
spirilla
bacilli
diplococci
86
1-celled microorganisms having both plant&animal characteristics are called ___
cocci
fungi
bacteria
flagella
87
establishing a professional online image is an essential ___ attribute
popularity-building
spiritual
personal
image-building
88
abnormal condition of all/part of the body which makes the body incapable of normal function
a contamination
an allergy
an infection
a disease
89
motivation and self-___ skills will help you move to the next level in your career
involvement
centeredness
management
esteem
90
removal of blood/other potentially infectious materials on item's surface&removal of debris
sterilization
disinfection
cleaning
decontamination
91
document also known as a client questionnaire, consultatiom card, health history form
welcome form
intake form
greeting form
entrance form
92
successfully sharing info b/w 2 people/groups so the info is understood is called...
effective communism
strong communication
direct communication
overt communication
93
contact with non-intact skin or potentially infectious materials are the result of a(n) ___
exposure incident
inflammation
allergy
contamination
94
5.25% sodium hypochlorite is also known as
white vinegar
household bleach
household ammonia
table salt
95
schedule clients who are … Late for the last appointment of the day or ask them to arrive early
occasionally
habitually
rarely
never
96
who were the first to cultivate beauty in an extravagant fashion
romans
chinese
egyptians
greeks
97
reaction from extreme sensitivity to certain food, chemicals, or normally harmless substances
an allergy
an inflammation
infection
a contamination
98
which part of the body is deemed inappropriate for tweezing
shoulders
upper lip
bikini line
tops of the feet
99
after cleaning and disinfecting a pipeless foot spa after each client, how do you dry it
with a blowdryer
with a clean linen towel
with a clean paper towel
let it air dry
100
to be ready to apply, wax needs to be warm, not hot, and
bubbling from the heat
drip smoothly off the spatula
thick consistency, like. peanut butter
flow off the spatula as a liquid
101
which of the following is a condition caused by an infestation of head lice
tinea pedis
pediculosis capitis
scabies
hepatitis
102
one goal of ergonomics is to make workplace tools safer and more
flexible
attractive
economical
efficient
103
repetitive motions have a cumulative effect on the muscles and
bones
tendons
skin
joints
104
the term ___ describes a ringworm fungus of the foot
tinea pedis
tinea spirilla
tinea barbae
tinea capitis
105
dense, active protoplasm found in the center of the cell is the ___
cell membrane
cytoplasm
nucleus
chromatid
106
disease spread form one person to another
occupational disease
communicable disease
infectious disease
systemic disease
107
6th step of 10 step consultation method
discuss upkeep and maintainance
review the intake form
determine and rate client’s preferences
show and tell
108
when should the client consultation be performed
when booking the appointment
after the service
before starting the actual service
during the service
109
less likely than the other to be requested by men for hair removal
chest
neck
feet
back
110
practical step for effectively communicating in the workplace
talk more, listen less
react instead of responding
Believe in yourself
be inattentive
111
who developed makeup that was popular with movie stars because it wouldn't cake or crack
mary kay
charles revson
charles nessler
max factor
112
to avoid ergonomic-related injuries, consider using
knee braces
a heated body wrap
a back brace
an anti-fatigue mat
113
procrastination may be a symptom of
exceptional organization
lacking a game plan
taking on too much at once
compulsion for perfection
114
one action step for success suggests you practice doing what helps you maintain
an elevated ego
a friendly approach
a comfortable demeanor
a positive self-image
115
which is one of the action steps for success
keep your personal life separate from your work
show respect only to those who can help you in your career
never practice new behaviors
always strive to meet salon manager's definition of success
116
produced by organisms, including bacteria, viruses, fungi, and parasites
a contagious disease
an infectious disease
a pathogenic disease
a systemic disease
117
women used henna to stain their hair and nails a rich, warm red during what era
victorian era
egyptian era
middle ages
renaissance
118
aka threading, is temporary hair removal method where cotton thread is twisted on skin
stringing
stretching
rolling
banding
119
bacteria that grows in pairs and can cause pneumonia are ___
streptococci
diplococci
bacilli
staphylococci
120
___ is a condition when the body reacts to injury, irritation, or infection
an inflammation
an allergy
a contagion
an exposure incident
121
process where bacteria grow to their largest size, and then divide into 2 new cells
binary fission
metamorphosis
meiosis
photosynthesis
122
when setting feasible goals it is important to
create a plan and revisit it often
focus on what feels good today
lock into a rigid plan
avoid frequent changes to the plan
123
OSHA complied with GHS which requires use of standard format called ___ (SDS) to replace MSDS
Surety Data Support
Safety Data Sheet
Safety Data Support
Safety Data Standards
124
it's recommended that you study during blocks of time that would be wasted, like
while listening to your instructor
while waiting in a doctor's office
while getting sufficient rest
while practicing new skills
125
methods used to eliminate or reduce the transmission of infectious organisms is called ___
infection control
infection reduction
transmission control
organism control
126
conscious act of planning life instead of just letting things happen is described as having
goals
dreams
game plan
ambition
127
organisms that host in another organism while contributing nothing to the survival of the host
debris
parasites
bacilli
cocci
128
when you meet older client for the first time, you should…
asked the client how they wish to be addressed
Address the client solemnly
Address the client by the honorific
Address the client by their first name
129
presence of pus can be a sign of ___
congestion
a bacteria infection
a sunburn
immunity
130
what led to a new prosperity in the US when beauty followed celebrity and society figure trends
assembly lines
WW1
the great depression
industrialization
131
coined the term
day spa
madam cj walked
marcel grateau
sarah breedlove
noel decaprio
132
your wrists should be kept in a ___ as much as possible
bent position
straight or neutral position
turned downward position
turned upward position
133
ability to understand is ___ to operating effectively in many industries
unimportant
irrelevant
incidental
major key
134
which is one of the recommended strategies to effectively manage your time
don't schedule free time because it is a waste of time
plan commitments around leisure time
always work as hard as possible, neglecting phys. activity
make effective time management a habit
135
curling iron was invented by
sarah breedlove
vidal sassoon
marcel grateau
max factor
136
there's no additive, powder, or tablet that eliminates the need for you to ___ equipment
clean and immunize
clean and disinfect
clean and sterilize
clean and maintain
137
sugaring can remove hair as. short as
1/3 in
1/2 in
1/4 in
1/8 in
138
not considered ommon contradiction for hair removal
pustules
chronic migraines
recent cosmetic surgery
sunburn
139
who helped gloria swanson glamorize nail polish in the 30s
elizabeth taylor
marilyn monroe
jean harlow
lillian gish
140
unhealthy compulsion to do things perfectly
procrastination
professionalism
punctuality
perfectionism
141
chemical process that destroys most (not necessarily all) harmful organisms on surfaces
disinfecting
cleaning
sanitizing
sterilizing
142
when interacting with coworkers, make an effort to remain... and resist drama and cliques
objective
assertive
aggressive
aloof
143
the... is the communication w a client that determines client needs and how to achieve results
client conference
client consultation
client conversation
client communication
144
the process that destroys all microbial life is ___
decontamination
sanitization
sterilization
cleaning
145
(SDS 16 categories) toxicology information includes routes of exposure, related symptoms, & ___
acute and chronic effects
exposure and protection
safe handling and storage
restrictions and transportations
146
ninth step of the 10 step consultation method
review the clients lifestyle
make color recommendations
discuss upkeep and maintenance
review the consultation
147
refers to the moral principles by which we live and work
emotions
equality
justice
ethics
148
effective human relations&communication skills build ___, inc growth, promote positive work env
stimulating conversations
strong values
professional ethics
lasting client relationships
149
when your behavior and actions are aligned with your values, you maintain your
ethics
self-image
motivation
integrity
150
1 important golden rule of communication for building a successful beauty career is to...
speak softly
be casual and comfortable
beware if your body language
use casual grammar/slang
151
not having ___ available poses a health risk and violates federal and state regulations
SDSs
CDCs
HRVs
MRSAs
152
before beginning any service, wash hands with pump soap, warm water, and a ___
clean, disinfected sponge
chemical disinfectant
clean, disinfected nail brush
chemical exfoliant
153
disease spread from one person to another is called a(n) ___
contagious disease
fungicidal
toxin
systemic disease
154
the SDS contains ___ categories of information
10
14
12
16
155
(using soft wax) if wax lands on an area of a client you don’t wish to treat, remove with
cloth saturated with rubbing alcohol
lotion designed to dissolve/remove wax
astringent or toner
cloth saturated in warm water
156
fungal infections are much more common on the ___ than on the hands
elbows
feet
knees
face
157
method of hair removal temporarily removes superfluous hair by dissolving at the skin’s surface
depilatory
electrolysis
laser hair removal
threading
158
daily maintenance of cleanliness by practicing good healthful habits
professional hygiene
personal hygiene
professional image
physical presentation
159
AMBBA had the goal to standardize requirements for barber school, curriculum, and setting forth
shop protocols
service prices
state licensing laws
professional dress code
160
how would victorian women induce
natural
color
applied lip stains
pinched their cheeks
applied natural ingredients
applied rouge
161
how long should product stay on skin when performing depilatory patch test
30-60 sec
2-3 min
5-7 min
7-10 min
162
___ involves fulfilling one's full potential
self-management
self-indulgence
personal desire
self-actualization
163
if hair is more than ____ long, it should be trimmed before waxing
1/2 inch
1/4 inch
1 inch
1-1/2 inches
164
it's ideal that salons identify when equipment is used, cleaned, disinfected, etc., in ___
a logbook
a note pad
the cosmetologist's memory
a private computer file
165
illnesses resulting from conditions associated with employment
systemic diseases
contagious diseases
pathogenic diseases
occupational diseases
166
your ___ involves your posture and the way you walk and move
physical problems
physical presentation
physical fitness
physical activity
167
basic units of all living things
organs
nerves
cells
muscles
168
bacteria generally consist of an outer cell wall containing a liquid called ___
cytoplasm
protons
nucleic acid
protoplasm
169
quat solutions are ___ disinfectants when used properly in the salon
somewhat adequate
somewhat effective
never effective
very effective
170
transmission of blood/body fluids through contact with intermediate contaminated object (razor)
indirect transmission
indirect transference
direct transmission
direct portability
171
licensing, enforcement, and your conduct when working in the salon are regulated by
state
federal
city
international
172
___ or negative thoughts can be counterproductive and work against your ability to succeed
self-critical
unsure behavior
frequent naps
vigorous exercise
173
if you were a middle class woman in ancient rome, what color would you color your hair
brown
black
red
blond
174
a ___ infection appears as a lesion containing pus&is confined to a specific part of the body
systemic
local
primary
secondary
175
which agency publishes the guidelines known as Standard Precautions
FDA
OSHA
EPA
CDC
176
awareness of posture and ___ with good work habits, tools, and equipment, will up your health
activity
movements
height
weight
177
to achieve success, it's important to make a conscious effort to ___ everyone
believe in
criticize
admire
respect
178
items that can be cleaned,disinfected,&used on 1+ people even if the item is exposed to fluids
disposable
multiuse
porous
single-use
179
your shoulders should be relaxed and ___ when you are providing client services
slightly arched
slightly curved
extended
level
180
(SDS 16) handling & storage lists precautions for safe handling and storage, including
incompatibilities
identifiers
reactions
ingredients
181
2nd half of 20th century saw mascara, improved hair care, nail products, weekly apts boom and
death
growth
proliferation
wane
182
the virus that causes AIDS is ___
human papilloma virus (HPV)
hepatitis C virus (HCV)
hepatitis B virus (HBV)
human immunodeficiency virus (HIV)
183
worlds first ammonia-free hair color was invented in 1985 by
vidal sassoon
noel decaprio
trevor sorbie
farouk shami
184
your reactions and ability to... in the face of challenges are critical to being successful
stand up
communicate effectively
control fear
remain assertive
185
during client consultation, clients should compete the intake form that discloses...medications
allergy medicines
both topical and oral
oral
topical
186
various poisonous substances produced by some microorganisms are called ___
flagella
tinea
bacteria
toxins
187
as part of the SDS categories, first-aid measures include important symptoms/effects as well as
containment and clean-up
required treatments
use restrictions
product use
188
inn cosmetology, the ability to produce an effect is known as ___
strength
effectiveness
productivity
efficacy
189
most manufacturers consider the creative director to be the driving force behind success and
mid-level position
low-level position
executive-level position
first-tier position
190
professional cosmetologists should brush, floss, and use ___ throughout the day as needed
lotion
antiseptic
fragrance
mouthwash
191
in ancient rome, hair color was used by women to indicate
class in society
education level
personal wealth
marital status
192
method of hair removal uses intense light to destroy growth cells of hair follicles
photoepilation
electrolysis
hirsutism
tweezing
193
appropriate for hair removal procedure for client’s underarms
waxing
cutting with scissors
tweezing
depilatory
194
parasitic diseases may be caused by ___
bacteria
cocci
lice
bacilli
195
it's important to wear gloves and ___ while disinfecting nonelectrical tools and implements
safety glasses
an apron
a face mask
remove jewelry
196
using ___ bleach can damage metal and plastic
any amount of
too little
too much
diluted
197
absolute requirement for laser hair removal is that the hair being removed must be...
lighter than the surrounding skin
in the anagen phase
in the cartagena phase
darker than the surrounding skin
198
to earn a clients’… And loyalty, be consistent
trust
money
affection
respect
199
3 bad habits that keep you from maintaining peak performance are no game plan, perfectionism, &
making mistakes
annual planning
failing to prioritize
procrastinating
200
impression you project through both your outward appearance and your conduct in the workplace
professional hygiene
personal hygiene
physical presentation
professional image
201
who used essential oils from nature in perfumes and for purification purposes
romans
chinese
greeks
egyptians
202
when we pay attention to our ___, we can learn how to manage our time efficiently
feelings of guilt
inner organizer
cravings
insecurities
203
to be diplomatic, you should be assertive rather than
aggressive
considerate
intelligent
sensitive