Overshares personal information

When Jesus visits his friends Martha and Mary, Martha...

Resented the attention Jesus gave her sister while she, herself, worked

Active listening means

give nonverbal feedback (eye contact, sitting forward)

Isolated from one another with little room for negotiation

What is conflict resolution?

Finding peaceful solution to a disagreement between people

Which is an example of an I-Message?

I feel said when you say those mean words.

An acquaintance is ____________________.

someone you know of through a friend

What is 'passive' communication

denies their own feelings and allow others to take control

Which statement is aggressive communication

"You failed to tell me why you graded my paper this way"

Which one of these is NOT included in an I-Message?

How... (how someone is to blame)

Passive Agressive communication

Uses sarcasm and subtle sabotage to get even

You messages are what?

pointing your finger or blaming

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Relationships Chapter 4

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1
How can you demonstrate good listening skills?
Speaking over person
Multi tasking while someone is talking to you
Focus on the person, not the content
Check for understanding
2
Porous Boundaries
Values own opinions
Overshares personal information
Avoids intimacy and close relationships
3
When Jesus visits his friends Martha and Mary, Martha...
washed Jesus' feet with her tears
Sat down and listened to his teachings
anointed Jesus's feet with oil
Resented the attention Jesus gave her sister while she, herself, worked
4
Personal Boundaries are important because
It ensures relationships can be mutually respectful, appropriate, caring
All of the Above
People create them to establish how others are able to behave around them
set the basic guidelines of how you want to be treated.
5
Which is an example of good listening skills?
looking someone in the eye
sleeping
fidgiting
talking at the same time
6
Active listening means
give nonverbal feedback (eye contact, sitting forward)
listening to music in one ear and your friend in the other
text while listening (you've heard it all before)
interrupting the person talking when you have the answer
7
Rigid Boundaries
everyone in evveryones business
firm yet flexible
strict
Isolated from one another with little room for negotiation
8
Sometimes these are our first experience of friends
play dates
teammates
neighbors
relatives, cousins
9
Scripture indicates Jesus did not have friends outside his 12 Apostles.
False
True
10
Not every relationship can grow to a deep level.
True
False
11
What is conflict resolution?
Finding a way to avoid someone because of your differences
Making a list of how to resolve a conflict with someone
Finding peaceful solution to a disagreement between people
Disagreeing with someone's opinions or values
12
Body language can never be misinterpreted.
False
True
13
Which is an example of an I-Message?
I don't know what an I- message is.
I feel said when you say those mean words.
You make me sick when you call me names.
14
Healthy boundaries
Value others opinions
Can say no to others
All of the above
Accept when others say "no"
15
Being assertive is the same as being dominating.
True
False
16
Reasons a friendship can end are
Not putting in the effort
All of the above
People change
Miscommunication
17
An acquaintance is ____________________.
someone you know of through a friend
someone you are intimately close with
an old friend
a teammate
18
Jesus wept when he heard of this friends death.
Peter
Cornelieus
Lazarus
Thomas
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What is 'passive' communication
the process of making plans to achieve/do something
when a person disregards other peoples needs or wants
ability to share thoughts/emotions with confidence and skill
denies their own feelings and allow others to take control
20
An exclusive group of friends who do not readily allow others to join.
Aquaintances
Family
Clique
21
Which statement is aggressive communication
I would like to set up an appointment to discuss this
"You failed to tell me why you graded my paper this way"
avoiding eye contact
complaining behind someones back about them not to them
22
An avenue to healthy good communication is
None of the Above
Win-lose
Acceptance
Judging
23
Which one of these is NOT included in an I-Message?
How... (how someone is to blame)
Because... (why it made you feel that way)
When... (what happened to upset you)
I feel... (emotion or feeling)
24
Passive Agressive communication
Is never manipulative
Uses sarcasm and subtle sabotage to get even
Attacks others forcefully
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Friends who work together on a common interest
Acquaintances
Intimate friends
Buddies - collaborators
Close friends
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You messages are what?
Mind reading
feedback
pointing your finger or blaming
mixed messages
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Usually together for an activity such as a sport but may socialize outside the activity
Intimate friends
Buddies/Collaborators
Close Friends
Relatives as Friends

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