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Habit #5 -- Seek 1st to Understand, Then to be Understood
Habit #5 -- Seek 1st to Understand, Then to be Understood
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A #7Habits #Review #Pages164-180
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The Native American proverb, "Listen, or thy tongue will make thee deaf" means . . .
If you never use your ears, they will stop working.
Talking too much could give you a disease of the tongue.
Your constant talking will make others want to silence you.
If you do not listen to others, you might as well be deaf.
2
Which sentence most closely matches this one in meaning, "Your attitude isn't the problem."
ALL of the available answers to this question.
I didn't say YOU had an attitude problem.
I didn't say you had an ATTITUDE problem.
I didn't say you had an attitude problem.
3
Ignoring a conversation when your mind is wandering or you're caught up in your own thoughts is
Word Listening.
Selective Listening.
Pretend Listening.
Spacing Out.
4
When you are listening to someone explain their feelings/troubles, you should . . .
take action to solve their problem.
explain why they shouldn't feel that way.
start giving them your best advice.
just listen!!!
5
To really understand another person, you need to "walk in their shoes" because . . .
Everyone else has cooler shoes than you.
Different journeys -- different points of view to consider!
It's my view VS yours --conversations are competitions.
ALL of the available answers to this question.
6
When others talk we seldom listen because we're too busy . . .
preparing a response.
filtering their words through our own paradigms.
judging their situation.
ALL of the available answers to this question.
7
Listening only to the part of the conversation that interests YOU is
Judging.
Pretend Listening.
Selective Listening.
Word Listening.
8
When practicing
MIRROR
ing, a phrase you could use to introduce your reflected restatement is,
"I can see that you're feeling . . ."
ALL of the available answers to this question.
So, as I see it . . . "
So, what you're saying is . . . "
9
Being inattentive to a speaker BUT making comments such as, "Uh-Huh," "Great!" at pauses is . .
Word Listening.
Spacing Out.
Self-Centered Listening.
Pretend Listening.
10
The KEY to communication is . . .
to somehow agree with the other person.
using only the best SAT vocabulary words.
to explain your point-of-view fully and with exact details.
listening intently before you respond.
11
To engage in Genuine Listening you must . . .
listen with your Eyes, Heart, and Ears.
practice mirroring (NOT mimicking!) the speaker's key points
ALL of the available answers to this question.
"stand" in the speaker's "shoes."
12
Listening with your ears alone isn't enough because . . .
Only 7% of communication is contained in the words we use.
ALL of the available answers to this question.
40% of communication is the voice's tone & feeling of words.
53% of communication comes from Body-Language.
13
When you
MIRROR
another person's statement to demonstrate you understand them, you . . .
ALL of the available answers to this question.
mimic: repeating exactly what the person says like a parrot.
judge their statement.
reflect their statement & feelings using your own words.
14
Listening mostly to "one-up" the speaker
("You think
your
day was bad?!?")
is
Selective Listening.
Word Listening.
Self-Centered Listening.
Judging.
15
Paying attention to someone's WORDS but missing their facial expressions & body language is . .
Pretend Listening.
Self-Centered Listening.
Word Listening.
Selective Listening.
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The deepest need of the human Heart is to be . . .
respected for WHO they ARE.
ALL of the available answers to this question.
understood.
valued as a one-of-a-kind individual.
